"Me Time" Common Eider

It isn’t always easy.
In fact, some days it feels nearly impossible.

But it is essential.
Not optional.
Not indulgent.
Essential.

Because before we can show up for anyone else…
we have to show up for ourselves.

Life has a way of crowding the room.
Deadlines. Headlines. Noise.
The constant hum of urgency convincing us that everything matters—
except the one thing that quietly matters most.

Our well-being.

And that’s the first thing we trade away.

In a world that never stops talking,
there is a quiet truth we tend to avoid:

You don’t find yourself in the noise.
You find yourself in the stillness.

Not to solve everything.
Not to have all the answers.
But simply to steady yourself…
to breathe…
to remember what matters.

This morning, I watched a lone common eider resting on a seaweed-covered rock.
All around him—movement.
Waves rolling. Wind pushing. Birds calling.

And there he was.
Still.
Unbothered.
Resting like it was the most important thing in the world.

Because for him—it was.

Not laziness.
Not escape.
Balance.

And standing there, watching him,
I realized something quietly profound:

I had joined him.

Not on the rock.
Not in the water.
But in the stillness.

Just for a moment…
everything slowed.
And in that pause, there was clarity—not loud or dramatic—
just simple and true.

We are better…
kinder…
more present…
more loving…

more thankful…

when we take care of ourselves first.

Not after everything else is done.
Not when there’s time.

First.

Because when we are well,
everything else has a chance to be.

So maybe the question isn’t
“Do I have time?”

Maybe it’s
“How can I not?”

So take the walk.
Have the nap.
Drive with no destination.
Sit in the quiet a little longer than feels necessary.
Let the world move without you for a while.

You might find… it’s exactly where you needed to be.

Be well.


2 responses to “Be Well, First: Embrace Serenity in a Busy World”

  1. what a great reminder.

  2. I love this, why I love to hike. Great message.

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