There are days in Rhode Island when the weather feels like it’s being controlled by a committee that can’t agree on lunch.
Morning opens with a chill that demands flannel and something warm in your hands. By noon, the sun takes over like an overconfident intern, and suddenly you’re questioning the decision that led you to thermal underwear. By afternoon? Clouds roll in like they’ve been holding a grudge all winter, and just to make a point… it rains.
Not a gentle rain either. No. A committed, Rhode Island rain. The kind that says, “You thought you had me figured out?”
Spring doesn’t arrive here.
It negotiates.
And yet, we’ve made peace with it.
We joke about it.
We dress in layers like survivalists of a meteorological mood swing.
Because somewhere along the way, we’ve learned a quiet truth:
There’s no such thing as bad weather—just inappropriate clothing.
And when the sun does win the argument…
Well, you’d think the entire population had just been released from captivity.
People emerge from their homes squinting at the sky like it’s a brand-new invention. Heads tilt upward. Shoulders drop. Smiles appear without permission. There’s a collective, unspoken thought:
“Oh… there you are.”
And like clockwork, they migrate.
Beaches. Trails. Marshes. The places that call to something deeper than habit.
Like bees returning to a hive, they never forgot.
It was on one of those earned days that I saw him.
Out on the rocks at Sachuest, perched at the edge of land and everything beyond it. Binoculars raised. Watching—not just looking—but watching. The kind of stillness that tells you he’s been here before. Many times.
The ocean stretched out in front of him, steady and ancient. The lighthouse stood in the distance, quiet in its purpose. And between them, life moved.
Birds riding the wind like they had someplace important to be.
Waves repeating a rhythm older than memory.
The first hints of green pushing their way into the world again.
Spring, doing what Spring does best—reminding us that nothing stays still. Not the seasons. Not the tides. Not us.
And for a moment, everything made sense.
Not in some grand, philosophical way.
But in a quieter, more honest one.
This… is enough.
The man didn’t move much. Didn’t need to.
He had front-row seats to something people spend their lives chasing:
Connection.
To nature.
To stillness.
To himself.
And I thought about how easy it is to forget that.
How quickly we get pulled into the noise. The expectations. The constant hum of things that feel urgent but rarely matter. We chase outcomes. We measure days. We wait for perfect conditions.
But nature doesn’t wait.
It adapts. It changes. It finds a way to bloom in spite of everything.
My dad setting up his tomato “incubator” came to mind. Oxhearts, of course. Every year, the same quiet optimism. Seeds in soil, only when the “ground is warm enough”. Faith in what’s to come. No guarantees—just belief.
And isn’t that the whole thing?
We don’t control the weather.
We don’t control the seasons.
We don’t even control most of what life throws our way.
But we do get to decide how we meet it.
With resistance…
or with wonder.
With expectation…
or with appreciation.
Because happiness isn’t something that arrives when everything lines up perfectly.
It’s what’s left when you stop insisting that it should.
It’s sitting on a rock, watching the ocean breathe.
It’s noticing the first bud on a branch that looked dead last week.
It’s laughing at the fact that you needed a winter coat and a T-shirt on the same day.
It’s realizing that even on rainy days…
even on Mondays…
There’s something quietly extraordinary happening all around you.
If you’re willing to see it.
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